Am dating a man going through divorce
Perhaps they’re ready for a new commitment, especially if the old one was broken long ago a’ la strangers under one roof.
They might not think they owe loyalty to a feckless, faithless mate, or one who prolongs the proceedings.
And evolutionarily speaking, women might accurately feel they are running out of time; with every decade past men’s 20s, guys who can snag ever-younger partners do, leaving straight women of their own cohort short of available mates: “….[My now-ex] said I had no right to date because we were ‘still married’, ha!
) First off, why are many people so eager to date before they’re divorced—sometimes to the point of hiding their still-married status?
“ Unsurprisingly, some folks are unwilling to extend their emotional exile.
Maybe they just want fun, sex, and a break from the bleakness.
Dear Duana, I’ve gotten involved with three women I met online in the last year, only to find they were all still married. It makes a lot of sense when you see it from their side.* People need love, or at least some contact.
I had asked each of them whether their divorce was final before meeting in person, and they all said yes! Many studies confirm that isolation doesn’t just make us miserable, it can literally make us ill.