Dating a computer science guy
Your smart mind gives you a particular type of advantage that can be very, very powerful in life: YOU'RE USUALLY RIGHT.
Smart people get used to being "right", because they usually ARE right.
A great deal of evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship begins in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, protection, stimulation, and social contact.
Those relationships are not destiny, but they appear to establish patterns of relating to others.
How about we do a little peer-to-peer saliva swapping? What do you say we play a game of "Words With More Than Friends? I wish you were Broadband, so I could get high-speed access. I'd ask if you come here often, but I already stalk you on Four Square.
Mind if I run a sniffer to see if your ports are open? If Internet Explorer is brave enough to ask you to be your default browser, I’m brave enough to ask you out! If you won't let me buy you a drink, at least let me fix your laptop. You're so pretty, I wouldn't even need to use an Instagram filter if I took your photo. What's a nice girl like you doing in a chatroom like this? " Roses are #ff0000, violets are #0000ff, all my base are belong to you.
and one "problem scenario" just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER... "The Genius Failure Paradox" is the tendency for UNUSUALLY intelligent men to have very LOW levels of success with women and dating.
There are many kinds of love, but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner.
more on that later.) Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE'S NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE. A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good... But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult.
There's no quick "I'm right" around the next corner to make you feel better. Accepting that you're wrong is a VERY hard thing for a "smart guy".
For some, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element of life, providing a source of deep fulfillment.
The ability to have a healthy, loving relationship is not innate.