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[Read: 13 charming ways to appear approachable to guys] Try to be more approachable and friendly.

And when you have the odd chance of coincidence, give him enough opportunities to strike a conversation with you.

(Check out Dale Carnegie’s, How To Win Friends and Influence People)What’s wrong with a little harmless flirting? You can’t fundamentally change how you look, what you do, or your personality.

If someone doesn’t like what you have to offer enough to go out on a second date, then it’s their loss.

Is he giving all the right signs, but not really doing anything about it?

Does he flirt with you, stare at you, but hold back from asking you out or telling you that he likes you?

But THEN…this past weekend I met someone at a barbecue, and he got in touch and asked me out. If he’s not really interested, he’ll get tired and quit the game. Option number 2 is fine too, if you can handle the frustration of not knowing where you stand for a little while longer. No guy or girl is going to tell you to your face that they were repulsed by you, would rather have jumped out a window than continue to listen to another boring word come out of your mouth, or felt nauseous from your subtle but deadly odor.

For whatever reason (which is frankly none of your business), they’ve decided that they just don’t want to see you again, period. I think he might be interested too (I mean signs point to yes–He asked me out. So let me summarize the main points in this common scenario:1) Guy shows interest. We’ve exchanged a bunch of texts yesterday and today (it’s Wed. It is so rare I actually care about this sort of thing at all, but I’m actually interested here (miracle of miracles). Said goodnight last night…) But dude, when is he going to ask me out again? I’m staring at my phone at work — productivity is definitely suffering.You talked the entire time without giving your date the chance to get in a word edgewise.You didn’t ask your date any questions to show that you were genuinely interested. You must have had an amazing time listening to yourself. Don’t you know that people love listening to their own voice and if you give them that opportunity, they will feel like they had a great conversation with you? Use your judgment, or better yet, just don’t do it. I could go on and on listing things NOT to do on your date (you can add more in the comments section), but I think you get the picture.

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