Smart woman dating
The alternative would be to exist as a pretty fool, a la Daisy Buchanan’s wish for her daughter.But I wouldn’t want to be a woman who’s ignorant to the wonders a scholarly life has to offer — nor would I want a man dumb enough to love me for it.We’re encouraged to cultivate our intellects, but it runs the risk of making us less romantically appealing.
Intellectual distance, the paper argues, makes the heart grow fonder.
The researchers who led this study believe “feelings of diminished masculinity accounted for men’s decreased attraction toward women outperformed them.” So basically women have to worry about stepping on shards of shattered masculinity when breaking glass ceilings. Women are purchasing more music than men, emerging as leaders in STEM fields, and now hold more advanced degrees than men do.
Michelle Obama spoke a few weeks ago on the importance of girls paying attention in school and getting good grades.
I was married, divorced, a friend with benefits, a doormat, a first date more times than I'd like to count, and the victim of a man who needed a lot of space all the time.
Basically, I spent too many years meeting the wrong men, acting the wrong ways and feeling the wrong things about myself.